Welcome to the anal mysteries

The base, located in the anus, is one of the most beautiful and powerful centres of the body. It is our root to the earth and to life itself. Kundalini, our pure life force energy, is stored here in the base of our bodies. This is the same potent force that fuels hurricanes, volcanoes and tsunamis in nature.

It is no surprise then why most dominant religious traditions have kept us away from this source of personal power. The supposed sin of sodomy has meant that this sacred centre and its gifts have been obscured by fear, shame and guilt. So as a collective we have kept away from this holy space within ourselves.

The deep cultural shame that has been attributed to the base for centuries has meant that collectively it has become humanity’s last outpost, a collective basement, a storehouse hiding our deepest fears and most tender parts.

Most people approach this space with an over zealous attitude. Pornography and sexual conditioning has cloaked the anus in a disguise of hyper-sexuality (‘hotness’) from the subconscious programming of guilt and shame. The anus does hold tremendous power but more importantly it holds our tenderest parts. It is the home to our deepest vulnerabilities of being human. If pornography was to accurately depict the true depth of anal sex, we would see people who are beautifully broken open. We would be shown tears, sobbing and roaring. We would witness the deepest authentic expression of our humanness alongside the wild power of our primal nature.

Anal penetration when approached slowly and consciously and with deep trust stimulates our parasympathetic nervous system which is responsible for calming and relaxing our mind and body. Instead of a painful and unpleasant encounter (which many associate with anal sex) it can be a beautiful stress reliever and antidote to anxiety. Safety is one of the portals into the anus. In order to build these new foundations upon which we can embody the true meaning of safety- we first need to mine the depths of what lies at the root. To uncover the places where we did not feel safe in our lives, times when we didn’t want to be here on earth. We must be willing to meet with love the parts that have always felt alone in the world and to be honest about the tenderest aspects of our being. To confess our shames and fears, to bring out everything stored in our closets of concealment.

When we are too broken open in our messy, powerful and beautifully human selves…. when we have nothing left to hide…. then, only then, will the mysteries of the base open.

Roaring and alive.

Throughout these teachings I use both words anal and base intermittently.

Base refers to the region of the body that includes both the anus and perineum.

Base or root is also the term used to describe the chakra or energetic centre contained in this region.

 

HOW TO USE THESE TEACHINGS

There is no order to these practices, there is no beginning nor ending, there is only life waiting to meet you.

As you scroll through the content feel what speaks to you.

What is calling to you? Begin there.

 

If you notice contraction or resistance to a particular practice I recommend adopting a curious attitude and leaning into it. I also recommend journaling your experiences as you delve into the content.

When we commit to a journey such as this the magic is already at work, it begins the moment you decide to embark upon it. Stay alert to your life, pay attention to your dreams, thoughts and what shows up in your outer landscape. You might notice that life will bring you experiences that support the deepening of these teachings.

Finally, set an intention for your life and for this time you explore these teachings. What do you intend for your life? What wants to shift, heal or transform?

I also recommend you create an outer space, such as an altar, for this inner journey. It could be as simple as a candle and your intentions. This is a dedication to your growth and development and also a physical reminder of something significant happening in your inner realms.

If you would like support during this time I am offering individual sessions to unpack what is arising for you, so please reach out.

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Journal questions to explore before you begin

  • What are your intentions for this journey?

  • What are your experiences (if any) of anal sex?

  • How do you feel about your base/anus?

  • We all have hidden closets of shame, what is in yours?

  • What experiences led to this shame you may be carrying?

  • What do you want from this journey?

    How do you want to feel?

AGREEMENT TO SELF

I commit to my transformation and evolution by showing up fully for this work and for my life.

I commit to making time to explore these teachings and to make space in my life for my inner world.

I accept my feelings and emotions and have patience with myself as I explore new areas of life.